Sunday, August 29, 2010

Trust...

-Should we be quick to trust, quick to hurt/be hurt and quick to heal?
Or should we keep our distance from people, as we slowly push them farther and farther away?
-I totally forgot about our little blog we had here. At least I remember now :-)
Anyways, to answer your complex question, why be quick to do anything? Over time you see what kind of people are really there for you and honestly care for you. Now "trust", I would never be quick to trust, even though many do. Some people you just know you can automatically trust, some people it takes time, but once you get to know them and you decide they are worth some of your trust shares :-)
Quick to "hurt" is a different story. We would all like to think we are the badasses of the human genome but most people do not like to see the other hurt...some people enjoy it, but most do not. Quick to hurt is sometimes a good option though, especially in relationships
Quick to "heal" is really all on you, for all you reality heads out there. Some people heal really quickly, some do not.
Now the answer to your question in my book is the only logical answer, learning to heal. The faster you heal the sooner your life will be better :-)
-So did I. :P Oops!
And you are right. Idk why I wrote this.. It must have been close to or around my favorite time of the month. :P
But you said "Quick to hurt is sometimes a good option though, especially in relationships."
...How is "quick to hurt" a good thing, especially in relationships?
Sheesh, I think the only time "quick to hurt" is 'good', is when you're in a fight, or getting into one.